The Daddy Dom Podcast S2 Ep15 - Intro Interview with a Sub  

I really hope you enjoy this four part series of episodes with my conversation, uh, with a young sub named Anya from Down Under. 

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And welcome to the daddy Dom podcast.  I'm your host Ben, but you can call me daddy.  I don't mind that one bit. In fact, I prefer it  on this podcast. It is a prelude to the next four episodes. I had the unique pleasure of sitting down with A sub.  And we exchanged our views on what it is and what it takes to be a Daddy Dom. 

She has experienced almost an entire lifetime in a very short and young life and experienced so many things that I just had to have her on as my first guest on the Daddy Dom podcast. Her name is Anya and she's from Down Under. in Australia, and we've known each other for about three years or so. And one of the great pleasures I have as a Daddy Dom is to watch subs and Doms come into their own, learn new things, find out who they are and how they fit as either a Dom or sub in that dynamic. 

And also finding out what connects with them, who connects with them, how they relate to them in different scenarios and situations. Not just in life, but, you know, experimental as let's say.  And as the prelude to this podcast would suggest, I have posted the entire unedited version of this chat that I had with Anya on my Patreon page.

It is about an hour and 45 minutes long, so I have decided to break it down into four equal parts. So we're not.  Embedded by so much information that we can take again those small bites and take them throughout our day or throughout our night as we dream and kind of relate to it and see what  We can take away and what we can absorb and what we can use in our own DS relationships as we curate them throughout our time. 

Just to give you a bit of a background on Anya, she is young. only in the tender age of 23, but in the three years that I've known her, she has experienced just as much things as I have experienced in my 15 years of becoming a daddy dom and all the things and all the kinks and all the domination and different types of ds relationships, master, slave DDLG and all the things that come with it.

She is really Taken the reins and empowered herself to find out what it is to be a sub. And who she wants to be her dom. That's so important that we must realize that it is the sub that chooses her dom.  You can be a sub, but just not anyone's sub. You can be a dom, but just not anyone's dom. That connection, that  interwovenness, that  places, things, that interstellar connection  reign true.

Sometimes you just don't connect with the dom or the sub that you're engaged with.  And that is an integral part because it's all about trust, it's all about communication, and it's all about letting yourself go to someone  and having that person let themselves go to you.  But I digress.  Back to Anya.  In the first episode we are going to explore her.

How she started, where she started, hmm,  with me.  And the audios that I produce, and then how that blossomed into her experience and growing and finding out new things through FetLife and  meeting new people within that community and really truly making it her own.  And I think that's A misconception  of doms and subs.

Subs are empowered. And if you are a sub, you too should be empowered to explore yourself. Give yourself the confidence to say yes and to say no. That's my kink and that's not my kink. This is the type of DOM I want to experience. These are the types of DOMs I don't want to experience. So in the first episode, we really kind of dive into that. 

In the second episode, that will be coming along, we dive into subspace.  What she thought she required, what she needs, and her experiences with the different doms and people outside experiencing that sub drop or what she requires thereafter or within the scene itself.  Communication. Communication is always the key.

Express yourself. Tell somebody, tell your sub, tell your dom what you need.  We're not mind readers. We don't know. Everyone is different and their requirements are  of wide variety. So I think that what we take away from this second episode is the key is communication, letting your dom or sub know what that is. 

Also in part two, we also discuss the importance of sometimes the dom having more experience than the sub. Again, we were talking about a power dynamic where one must have a little bit more experience than the other. than the other and that in power dynamic within a ds ddlg relationship or scenario or scene must come from the dom.

The dom is leading the way  and so in part two we also discussed those parts of things as well.  Part three we really have a really good back and forth of our different perspectives of what a dom feels as opposed to what a sub feels. In a relationship and within the scene,  it's different each way. And I always find within these conversations that we learn new things about each other.

And we learn new things about ourselves. And having this dialogue and communication between Doms and Subs really expands that. and gives you a different perspective of how you should be within that dynamic.  And through that communication, you also get to express your hard and soft limits.  And those might change throughout your experiences.

You might want to try something that just didn't hit right, or something that you have tried multiple times and now has kind of lost its luster.  That's the evolution. That's the journey. of becoming a Dom or Sub  is finding out what hits for you and what's amiss, and then exploring those things and those people who can give you those things. 

In the last episode, as we wrap up,  I must admit, I had been having a few drinks throughout the conversation and, uh, I, as you can tell, I was very enamored with my guest this time and, um, being my first guest and my first time being a host as, uh, in a podcast, um, you know, I didn't really know if to find my way and whatnot, so a beautiful learning experience for me.

And we touched on one. concept that I had dismissed and I had alluded in some previous episodes about brats and she kind of opened up my mind to what bratty behavior is. Not being a brat 24 7, but what Sometimes a brat behavior means towards a sub, and I was very happy with the response that she got and the perspective that she gave.

And, you know, as a dom, I'm always learning new things. And I think in this subject as brats, I was very closed minded because it was something that I didn't want to engage with. But after talking with Anya, I really opened up my mind to that.  And in an episode coming up after these four part series, I'll be exploring more of the BRAT side of a DS relationship and a DDL relationship and how that works and what it means to the sub, as opposed to what it means to the DOM. 

So I really hope you enjoy this four part series of episodes with my conversation, uh, with a young sub. Named Anya from Down Under. It was a great experience for me and my first time being a host as a podcaster. I've been on many podcasts myself as a guest and giving of myself, but to listen to somebody else and to gain their perspective and the back and forth that we had, I think was very organic.

And, uh, not self indulgent on either our parts, but really taking in the perspectives and the experiences that we have learned throughout our journey of becoming me, a Daddy Dom, and her as a sub, that she is still me. on that journey. Remember, this is a lifelong experience. You have to take it all in, and those things may change throughout your existence.

You might like one thing at some point in your life, and that might change throughout the rest, and that is okay. It's great to have a partner who will accept those things and move with you, and sometimes you just need to branch out and experience those things by yourself. But again, communication is the key.

Trust is the key. And to have an open dialogue is the key.  So I really hope that you enjoy this four part series. You can get the entire uncut, unedited version on my Patreon. I hope you sign up. It'd be great to have you there. I love to have all the feedback that I get there and I'm able to answer or back and forth.

And it is truly a great experience. And I hope to have you there and  continue this journey with me and with us. And as we move along, I think that would be fantastic. And  back to the prelude, this podcast is about not just my narrative and my short audios, it's about the dialogue between us. So  I think that's important.

And these four episodes coming up will. really truly  turn a new page to this podcast as I try to explore what subs and doms mean for each other.  And I'm really looking forward to exploring that by having a few more interviews of subs and doms to discuss the viewpoints of each individual  as I come across them. 

to summarize this prelude to the next four  episodes.  I have provided a little audio about what the deeper connection of a DS relationship.  It's not just sex, it's the connection of sex. Remember, sex is in the mind and  the body just follows.  Earbuds in, stay tingly,  and I look forward to hearing from you. 

There is  sex.  Like our sex.  Nothing even comes close.  Nothing compares.  And tonight,  I am going to make you  mine.  All  mine.  No one else's.  No one's hands will ever caress you.  Take you.  Hold you.  You'll only know  the passion and desire  of me. 

All of you,  every part,  every curve,  every place. You never thought you'd have lips or hands.  I want to know you 

Intimately  With my mouth  With my hands  That place  Between your shoulder blades  That place 

Behind your knee At the back of your thigh Your ass Grrr 

I am going to devour you tonight  and make you mine.  All mine. 

And in return,  I am all yours.  Every part of me to touch, to feel, to hold, to squeeze.  I want to feel your hands on me,  your lips on my neck and on my chest.  I want to feel you grind.  On my thigh, as you sit on my lap,  I squeeze your ass and suck on those nipples.  Every moment  with you is going to be pure, unadulterated pleasure of our skin. 

Do you understand? Do you understand the bond I am creating between us? 

It's not just the physical feel.  It's not just the  touch.  It's not just the kisses. It's  not just the fucks. 

It's that emotional place,  that time and space that I am in you, kissing you.  Holding you by the back of your neck  and the small of your back  and sliding in and out of you.  So wet,  so hot.  Oh, it's those things,  you know, it's things that just take us out of space and time.  Transcendental sex,  where you don't even know yourself and I don't know me, and we're just two things,  totally  enveloped in the pleasure of our skin, the naughtiness of our mind, and the fulfillment of our emotions. 

The completion of our soul.  Fucking.  Making love. The holding and the squeezing. The touching and the feeling. The moaning and the groaning. And the feeling of me inside of you.  Pulsating.  Squirming beneath me.  Gyrating against my cock.  Pushing on my ass and squeezing me deeper inside you. Mmm, mine.  You are all mine.

All 

of you. 

And all of me. 

Intertwined.  Melted together  like one symbiotic being. 

Fuck, it's so intense.  So much. I can barely hold back. And then 

when I press my forehead against yours and we just lock  eyes together.  Oh,  deep  penetrating. 

Into our very  hearts. 

You complete me. Ah. 

So full.  So hard.  Ah.  So wet. The sounds from your mouth. The sounds from our hips. 

Uh, 

I can't hold out any longer.  You  make me  weak.  And I'm 

so full.  So much.  So much. Everything inside you. Sigh. 

Everything that  fully,  completely, 

you, 

and I am your 

forever plus.  One day,  I, us, we, me, and you. Baby, not just sex, 

For 

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